Tuesday, August 4, 2026

Planning Your Discretionary Spending in Retirement — Like Ordering Off a Menu

Sustainable retirement spending begins with quantifying the present value of your essential expenses and then allocating the remaining funded status toward discretionary “menu items” such as travel, hobbies, or gifts. Most retirees struggle not because they overspend, but because they lack a framework for understanding how long their discretionary choices remain sustainable. The Actuarial Financial Planner (AFP) provides that structure.

Framing the Problem: Your Retirement Menu

Think of retirement spending as a restaurant menu. Some items are nonnegotiable staples—housing, healthcare, insurance, food, taxes. These form the baseline of your lifestyle and must be funded first. Others are optional add‑ons—travel, dining out, charitable giving, home upgrades, hobbies, and family support.

The challenge is not simply “Can I afford this trip?” but “How does this choice affect my long‑term funded status and the sustainability of future choices?”

To answer that, you need a disciplined two‑step process.

Step 1 — Determining Essential Recurring and Non‑Recurring Expenses

This step establishes the baseline—the portion of your assets already spoken for.

  1. Identify Essential Recurring Expenses

Examples include:

  • Housing (rent, property tax, maintenance)
  • Medicare premiums and supplemental insurance
  • Food and household supplies
  • Utilities
  • Transportation
  • Taxes
  • Basic communication (internet, phone)

For each category, estimate:

  • Annual cost today
  • Expected inflation/trend rate (Healthcare often trends higher than CPI; property taxes may trend differently than food or utilities.)
  • Duration (Lifetime, 10 years, until mortgage payoff, etc.)

Then compute the present value (PV) of these obligations using your chosen discount rate. This produces the actuarial liability for essentials. The AFP automates these calculations.

  1. Identify Essential Non‑Recurring Expenses

These are predictable but not annual:

  • Roof replacement in 12 years
  • Vehicle purchase every 8–10 years
  • Major dental work
  • Home accessibility modifications
  • Long‑term care costs (Non‑recurring until triggered, recurring once triggered)

For each, estimate:

  • Future cost
  • Timing

Then discount each to present value.

  1. Sum the Present Values

This produces your Essential Spending Liability (ESL)—the actuarial cost of maintaining your baseline lifestyle.

Your discretionary budget is:

Before adding discretionary items, you must know how much “room” you have in your funded status.

Step 2 — Prioritizing Discretionary Spending

Once essentials are funded, the remaining assets support discretionary choices. This is where the menu metaphor comes into play.

  1. Define Your Discretionary Categories

Common ones:

  • Travel
  • Dining and entertainment
  • Gifts and charitable giving
  • Hobbies (golf, photography, boating)
  • Home upgrades
  • Family support (college funds, helping adult children)

Each category should have:

  • A desired level (e.g., two major trips per year, expressed in real dollars)
  • A duration (e.g., travel‑heavy years until age 75)
  • A priority ranking (must‑have vs. nice‑to‑have)

Higher‑priority items get funded first when discretionary budget is limited.

Example: Travel Spending — How Much and For How Long?

Travel is one of the most common discretionary categories—and one of the most variable.

  1. Build a Desired Travel Spending Schedule

For example:

  • Ages 65–75: $25,000/year (real dollars)
  • Ages 76–85: $10,000/year (real dollars)
  • Ages 86+: minimal
  1. Compute the Present Value of Travel Plans

Discount each year’s travel spending back to today. The AFP automates this year‑by‑year discounting. The result is your Travel Liability (TL).

  1. Test Sustainability

Ask:

Does adding TL keep your funded status ≥ 120%?

A 120% threshold provides a prudent buffer for:

  • Market volatility
  • Longevity risk
  • Unexpected health or home expenses
  • Inflation deviations

If not, adjust:

  • Reduce frequency (e.g., one major trip instead of two)
  • Reduce duration (e.g., travel‑heavy years end at 72 instead of 75)
  • Reduce cost per trip

This is the actuarial version of “ordering off the menu without blowing your budget.”

Bringing It Together: A Practical Workflow

  • List essential recurring expenses
  • List essential non‑recurring expenses
  • Calculate present value of essentials using the AFP
  • Determine ESL and funded status
  • Define discretionary categories
  • Model travel and other discretionary scenarios
  • Evaluate funded status for each menu alternative
  • Adjust until funded status meets your sustainability threshold

Closing Thought

Retirement spending is not about guessing what you can afford—it’s about quantifying it. Once you know the present value of your essential obligations, discretionary spending becomes a menu you can navigate confidently, choosing the items that bring joy without compromising long‑term security. The Actuarial Financial Planner easily quantifies your menu choices as opposed to other models that may assume a specified level of discretionary spending occurs each year (or that may not even distinguish between essential and discretionary spending). With a clear funded‑status framework, the retirement menu becomes something you can enjoy rather than worry about.